To Upgrade or to Break-up {Gadling}

Sep 10th 2006 3:30PM The problem is not the upgrade. The problem is that the woman feels neglected and ignored. The man tries to deal with the "reality" of the situation and offers a compromise. This makes the woman feel even worse, as the man has just shown that he has no understanding of what is going on with her. So she goes into her own form of unreasonable behavior.

Both people need training in how to talk with each other.