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Happily married? Divorce is still an option {ParentDish}
Aug 27th 2008 11:51AM Interesting that it is only men who seem to be misunderstanding me. First of all, please read my previous clarification that I DO NOT keep in contact with my ex...he merely tries to contact me.
As far as the grass being greener and all that...I have no delusions about the fact that if my ex and I were to rekindle things it would not be as fantasized. I know that we are both very different people now...many years have passed. At the top of the list of differences: I am a mother and he is still a party-all-the-time bachelor. His lifestyle does not mesh with mine at all. And no, thoughts of my ex do not tarnish the way I view my husband...those issues have only to do with the drastic changes in his personality.
Now about fantasizing about my ex during sex. Absolutely not. I have heard of both women and men fantasizing during sex, but I have never been able to. The only thing I ever concentrate on during sex is what we are doing and how it feels. I have tried to fantasize before but I guess I just don't have a very good imagination. Besides, my ex wasn't really that great in bed...my husband now is MUCH better.
I do not deny that I have changed somewhat since my husband and I got together, but certainly not as much, as drastically, or as quickly as he did.
Happily married? Divorce is still an option {ParentDish}
Aug 27th 2008 10:21AM To clarify...I do not actually keep in contact with him. He sends me text messages and pictures, but I never reply. He does not have my home phone number or address, and we live in different states.
Your red snapper is probably fake {WalletPop}
Aug 27th 2008 10:09AM Try keeping your comments relative to the article, Ms. Picky Hypocrite
Happily married? Divorce is still an option {ParentDish}
Aug 27th 2008 9:35AM I am still very young (30) and already on my 2nd marriage. I am exceedingly happy that I am no longer with my first husband, however I would have stayed married to him if he had given me that choice, but instead he thought his life would be better with another girl. When he left our son was not quite 2 yrs old. FYI: my ex-husband is not only no longer with the girl he left me for, but has gone through at least 2 other girlfriends (that I know of) since our divorce. In the meantime, I moved in with my parents for awhile (who had moved to another state) and did not date at all until I met the man who is my current husband. We dated for a year and then lived together another year before marrying last Valentine's Day. As I believe is common, my new husband changed somewhat shortly after our vows. I am not as happy with him as I was before our marriage, but even though I have an opportunity to leave him for "the one that got away," I know deep inside me that I could never leave my husband. The problems we have are all minor, and even though we seriously disagree sometimes divorce is never an option. Do not be fooled...I have some SERIOUS fantasies about my ex(boyfriend), who for whatever reason has been contacting me fairly regularly lately, but the fact remains that I love my husband and although everything is not roses, it's really not that bad, either. Even though I am a divorcee, I do not believe in divorce; I believe in 'til death do you part. There are always exceptions to that rule, such as abuse or serious infidelity (as in my first marriage), but even in those cases I feel that a couple should try try try to get help before jumping to divorce. Unfortunately counseling did not work for my first marriage, but I learned from my mistakes and picked a (MUCH) better man this time.
Internet Addresses to Run Out in 2010 {Switched}
Jun 17th 2008 6:09PM So what does it take to convert to this IPv6?
Climbing Everest Naked {Gadling}
Oct 16th 2007 7:26AM Eleanor, just because the man took his clothes of doesn't necessarily mean he likes to expose himself. In fact, my guess is you're way off in your assumption since he was at the top of a mountain with few to no people around to see him. And why is it disgusting? Are you disgusted by your own nudity? Your comment makes you sound pretentious and uptight.
Why Are These Inmates Dancing? {AOL Video Blog}
Aug 15th 2007 8:51AM The article says something about the possibility that these prisoners are being forced to dance. It says there is a human rights group claiming these dances are akin to torture and that at the end of the day some of the guys' feet are bleeding....
Honestly that doesn't bother me. These men are convicted criminals. I realize that justice systems are not perfect and there is a possibility of wrongly convicted men in there, but odds are most of those men are guilty. The dancing is very healthy and constructive, and if they feel a little pain in the process then great. They deserve some sort of punishment, and even if they are being danced close to the point of exhaustion there are a lot worse things than could be happening to them while they are in there.
The Continuing Saga of Paris' Jail Sentence {The Cooler}
Jun 9th 2007 2:56PM When will Paris grow up? "It's not fair!" PLEASE! It should follow for every citizen in America that "if you do the crime you do the time." Paris is guilty of the charges brought against her....she needs to quit her whining & crying & be a big girl about it. Her entire problem is that she has been so spoiled her entire life that she feels like she should always be given special treatment. WHATEVER. Just because celebrities are rich & famous does not mean the same laws do not apply to them as they do to the rest of Americans. I'm completely disgusted by her behavior.
Ten ways to help mom get in the mood {ParentDish}
May 11th 2006 8:35AM I feel like the author of this article is on the right track but didn't state herself clearly enough. I am recently divorced and, although still currently unmarried, in a rather serious relationship with my perfect man. One of the big differences I've noticed is how willing my new beau is to help me out--no matter what the chore. With my ex-husband it was like pulling teeth to get him to do ANYTHING other than go to work, and that includes the care of our child. I can't say that watching my boyfriend help out is a turn-on in itself; the turn-on comes from seeing that he cares about me enough to want to make things easier for me, even if it means he has to sacrifice a little bit. And yes, it drives me sexually crazy. My sex life never suffered in either relationship, but with my husband it was often times almost like another chore--something that had to be taken care of before I could go to sleep for the night. With my boyfriend....well, let's just say it's definitely not a chore. He was recently injured in a car accident and is just now able to get out of bed again due to 2 breaks in his left hip and 4 fractures in his pelvis. I have never been a big fan of being on top because I usually tire quickly and can't finish the job all by myself, but with him not only do I not mind...I'm glad to do it, and I never have any trouble finishing the job! It's because he shows me constantly, every day, that he really cares for me, and that's what really gets me going. I truly think the author of this article was trying to make a similar point; she just missed the mark a little bit.
