Click on a label to read posts from that part of the world.
Why Ditching Preconceived Notions Can Make For Better Travel
Me too. Many things influence our preconceived ideas about a place: daydreams, prejudice (I'm using this word in its traditional sense), and prior experience, as well as literature, the media, television and film. Example: Most of us entertain certain romantic notions when planning a trip to Hawaii or Paris.
Stereotypes exist for a reason, of course. But with every trip, I'm reminded of why preconceived notions are best left at home (unlike your passport). Besides avoiding the inevitable disappointment if your holiday is more "The Hangover" than "The Notebook," there are other good reasons to approach an upcoming trip - be it business or pleasure - with an open mind. Read on for ways to recalibrate your expectations, and ensure a richer, more rewarding travel experience.
Lower the bar
When you set unrealistic standards - whether for a hotel room, honeymoon, tourist attraction or country - you may be robbing yourself of fully enjoying the experience. If you're convinced you're going to meet your soul mate by parking it at the bar of a tropical resort, you may be bummed out with the outcome. Likewise, don't assume your business trip to Delhi is going to leave you despairing at all the suffering in the world. Often, the best moments in travel come when we're not trying too hard.
On a recent trip to Bolivia, I did a four-day tour of the Southwestern Circuit, from the craggy spires of Tupiza to the blinding expanse of the Salar de Uyuni (the world's largest salt flat). Our small group really clicked, and for three days, it was non-stop laughs. On our final day, when we arrived at the salt flats at sunrise, a young woman in our group was devastated that the weather was dry. She'd spent years dreaming about visiting during the wet season, when mirror-like pools stretch seemingly into infinity.
Never mind that rainy weather means key sections of Uyuni are inaccessible (including the stunning Isla del Pescado, a cacti-covered "island" in the midst of the flats), and that we'd lucked out by missing the last of the season's storms. This poor girl was inconsolable, and later confided that her trip was ruined. I felt for her, but her dashed dream served as a strong reminder to dial down the expectations. She was so distracted by what wasn't there that she missed how absolutely captivating the salt flats are when dry.
Push past your comfort zone.
While you should always keep your wits about you and listen to your intuition whether you're traveling or at home, there's a difference between trying something new, and being foolhardy. On that same trip to Bolivia, I was presented with an on-the-fly opportunity to try rap-jumping - from a 17-story building.
I'm not afraid of heights, but the idea of climbing out the window of La Paz's tallest hotel and rappelling face-down to the busy streets below had me shaking. But I trusted the company and equipment (full disclosure: I'd already done prior research, and spent time with their guides). Accidents can still happen but I felt I was in good hands. I had a blast.
Be receptive to changes
As a control freak, it can be hard for me to admit defeat in the face of time constraints or other issues that affect my travel itinerary. For the most part, I've learned to roll with it. If not for the monsoonal deluge on the day I planned to take a cargo boat on a three-day trip up the Rio Paraguay, I wouldn't have ended up at a dreamy agriturismo in the nearby countryside.
On a recent business trip to El Paso (which required me to visit several factories near the border), I was pleasantly surprised by everything. Although my hotel was just 10 blocks from the aforementioned border and adjacent to the rail yards, the neighborhood was perfectly safe and I enjoyed several evening strolls around the nearby arts district. I also learned that El Paso is ranked the nation's safest city of its size. I could have saved myself considerable angst if I hadn't let media hype about Ciudad Juarez seep into my imagination.
I had a similar experience years ago in Naples. I'd always longed to visit the city but was put off by fearmongering fellow travelers and (ahem) guidebook writers. I was positive I was going to get shanked while in pursuit of the perfect pizza, but my desire to see Naples trumped my fear. As it turns out, I felt very safe as a tourist, even at night in the notorious Forcella (not as dodgy as it used to be, and the home of some of the city's best pizza, which I'd take a shiv for, any day).
Obviously, my fleeting impressions of these two cities could easily be debunked, but the point is that I let a lot of rampant paranoia do my pre-trip research for me. If you go looking for trouble, you're sure to find it. But I also believe in the travel adage that you're just as likely to get hit by a truck while crossing the street at home. In other words, be smart and be safe, but don't let fear stop you in your tracks. There's a whole world out there waiting for you.
Filed under: Arts and Culture, Learning, Business, Africa, Asia, Europe, North America, Oceania, South America, Antarctica, United States, Bolivia, Paraguay, Ecotourism, Budget Travel, Central America, Caribbean, Women's Travel, Luxury Travel, Travel Security