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Dim Sum For Christmas: Creating A Holiday Tradition At Home
I've either waited tables or worked retail (usually in the food industry) since I was in my 20s. In layman's terms, it means that the holidays ceased to exist for me starting in 1995, when I started culinary school.
I'd always loved Christmas as a kid and in college. Yet, I willingly sacrificed the holidays, because it meant I'd finally embarked upon the career path I'd long dreamt of: becoming a cooking teacher and food (and eventually, travel) writer. I naively failed to realize that decades of restaurant work, flogging farmers market produce, and slinging cheese and meat would be required to supplement my occupational pursuits.
I've been able to travel overseas a couple of times over the holidays, and the Christmases spent in Thailand and New Zealand were memorable from both a cultural and universal perspective. If I had the financial means, I'd always travel during the holidays. In general, however, being in the food industry means you stay at home this time of year, even if home is somewhere most people would kill to visit (I've been fortunate to work the holidays in Vail and Telluride).
Dim sum parlors and Cantonese restaurants are always packed Christmas Day, with Chinese-Americans as well as diners of varying ethnic and religious persuasions. I've learned over the years that many people have a Christmas dim sum tradition, usually because they don't celebrate for whatever reason (not having kids is a big one).
In my case, I'm single and childless, but that's not why I do dim sum. Ethnically, my relatives on both sides of the family were immigrant Russian Jews, but my agnostic parents celebrated Christmas when my brother and I were growing up. To them, it was a way to unite family and allow us kids ... to be kids. As a child, I never imagined Christmas and I would part ways.
As an adult, I shun Christmas not because I have to work, but for the same reasons many people do: it's a stressful, bank account-depleting, heavily commercialized guilt-fest. I don't miss it, although I do my best for my teenaged niece (who received a rescue kitten from me this year) and nephew.
The truth is, if I'm unable to travel, I relish having one day a year where I can have 24 hours off and not feel bad about it. I eat delicious dumplings, maybe go for a hike or see a movie. Call family and friends. It's unabashed me-time, and until or unless I meet someone I want to create a more traditional holiday with ... please pass the bao.
[Photo credit: dim sum, Flickr user Jason Hutchens; tree, Flickr user Ian.Kobylanski]