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10 Locals To Befriend On Your Next Trip
The Taxi Driver
Many travelers don't realize when they get into a cab they are actually stepping through a portal of information. They spend their days driving people all over the city, so they know the best places to go for just about anything you're looking for. Ask them for dining information, where to get a great view of the city, the best markets for getting a deal and what some of the more offbeat sites are. I'll usually even ask them to put together an itinerary for me with the question: "If you had friends visiting, how would you spend a day with them?"
Additionally, taxi drivers can tell you more than just where to go and what to see. These people have seen it all, and in my experience, are usually extremely open, fun and talkative. Even when I'm home in New York, my friends and I will often get into taxis and ask the driver to pretend we're in the Cash Cab and ask us trivia questions. I can't think of a driver who has ever declined. When I travel I always have about 10 million questions about everything from food to dating and fashion, and my cab drivers are the ones who get bombarded with them. And unless you ask something extremely inappropriate, they're usually happy to answer.
Whether I'm staying in a hostel, hotel or guesthouse, I always try to befriend the staff. In fact, many of these people have become friends I still keep in touch with. Their job entails helping people to discover the best the city has to offer – not to mention they live there themselves – so they're happy to tell you the hidden secrets. After their shift, they may even offer to accompany you. On my last birthday, I was traveling solo in Mendoza, Argentina. I didn't want to spend the day alone, and confided this to my hostel receptionist, Javier. Luckily, Javier helped me get a group together that included hostel staff, locals and himself to go out for dinner at the "best asado restaurant in town" and for drinks at "Mendoza's best wine bar" to celebrate. It ended up being one of my best birthdays.
The Tour Guide
In my experience, tour guides are the easiest locals to befriend. It always seems as if they take on the job to not only educate the public, but also meet new people. And of course, since their job is to show tourists around the city, you'll know they'll be a good person to get recommendations from and explore with. On almost every tour I've been on, I've invited the guide out for drinks or to walk around the city, and it always turns into a worthwhile experience. One of the best tour guide friends I made was on San Cristobal Island in the Galapagos. My scuba diving instructor, Jens, and I began chatting on the boat, and the next day he came with me on a jeep tour of the island. The entire group was thankful, as our real guide couldn't speak any English, so Jens was able to translate as well as add in tidbits of his own knowledge. And when my camera broke at the beach, he was able to put me in contact with someone who sold me their used camera for a very cheap price.
Getting to know the barista at a local coffee shop can help make the city feel more like home. Not only can they give you insight into the city's coffee culture, they're often open to talking about life beyond the cafe, as well. And if you spend enough time relaxing with your cuppa joe in the shop, you're likely to become fast friends.
The Local Children
Local children are great to befriend, not only because they're cute, but also because they usually love talking to anyone and everyone. Not only that, they think everything is interesting, so you'll get tidbits of knowledge most adults don't deem worth mentioning. For example, when I was in Ghana I worked at an orphanage, and many of the children loved showing me their workbooks from school. Most likely, no adult is going to throw into a conversation, "so the children are learning about religion and household roles at school." However, it was fascinating for me to learn about the education system in the country, how it differed from the one in my country and what this said about Ghanian culture.
If you're traveling during the summer, it won't be hard to find a local student eager to do something with their free time. Hangout at student bars, peruse message boards or head to the nearest student cafe to get to know some of these locals. Most likely, they'll be happy to take you out for beers and give you some insider tips. In Lima, Peru, I befriended one student who actually gave me a tour of his campus, introduced me to his friends and told me about what classes were like in the city. It was an interesting excursion, and not one I would have thought to do on my own.
The Local Celebrity
Meeting a local celebrity can give you a quirky look into local culture. New York's Naked Cowboy, the Elephant Man in Barcelona and the Egg Lady in Gimmelwald, Switzerland, are just a few that I've encountered. They're usually famous for some quality they bring to the city, so meeting them is a unique experience. If you're not sure who the local celebrity is, ask your hotel, taxi driver or any of the other above-mentioned locals.
It's also possible to meet local celebrities. When I was living in Sydney, Australia, I won tickets to a film awards show. I had no idea what to expect, as I didn't know much about Australian films. The event was glamorous, with a red carpet, impeccable decor and free-flowing Champagne. While I didn't recognize any of the awarded names, I couldn't help but feel like a teenage girl meeting Justin Bieber at the after party. It was really exciting to sit and chat with these local celebrities who people in the film community deemed to be helping to put Australian movies on the world map. If performance doesn't interest you, you can seek out high profile locals in the communities you find worthwhile, like humanitarianism, cooking, farming or business.
As an avid CouchSurfing member, I have spent much time abroad meeting locals through this medium. While some are expats and others have lived in the city their entire lives, all have a wealth of knowledge and are always excited to share it. Because the site is made for travelers who want to meet locals and vice versa, you know you'll be able to find someone who is excited to show you around. I've gotten to have some really "behind the scenes" experiences by meeting CouchSurfers, like watching local painters at work, learning to tango for free, attending a birthday party and helping to cook for potluck suppers.
One of best ways to get to know a culture is through food. And what better way to taste the city's best food than by befriending a chef? Whether it's a 5-star Michelin Chef or a street food vendor, get to know these people by sampling their cuisine and asking them how they make it and what the dish's importance is in the community. It's also a great excuse to indulge in delicious foods.
The Local Activist
If you want to dig even deeper into the culture, befriend a local activist. Learn about issues in the community and how people are responding. Who knows, maybe you'll even be able to come with a solution or strategy to help the city you're visiting.
[Images via Adam Jones, Ph.D, David McKelvey, Jessie on a Journey, Melissa Wentarmini, N A I T]