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Galley Gossip: Sandvich Girl
I've been called many things in my life - good and bad (mostly good) - but the other day I was called something that made me stop dead in my scuffed up Mary Janes on the nappy blue carpet, something that made me, for a split second, take a step back and wonder, what the heck have I done with my life? And then I quickly shook myself out of it, because my life, to put it quite simply, is pretty darn great, and so I continued down the aisle.
What was it that actually made me examine my life at 35,000 feet? It wasn't much. Just two little words. That's it. But they were two oh so innocent, yet very shocking, little words.
I mean there I was, rolling down the aisle behind the snack cart. It was a nice day. My crew was good and the passengers were great. What more could a flight attendant ask for? I think we were probably somewhere over Illinois when I asked, over and over and over, "Would you care to purchase a snack?" That's when I heard a scratchy voice located somewhere not too far behind me say something I could not believe.
"Sandvich girl! Oh sandvich girl!"
At first I laughed, and then I turned around. That's when I realized it was me that the petite frail one wearing black wrap around glasses had called sandvich girl. ME! I was sandvich girl. Dear god, I remember thinking, how did this happen? As I handed the woman a turkey and cheese sandwich and collected a five dollar bill.
"Thanks," I mumbled, and quickly moved the cart.
Like most flight attendants, I have a college degree. I've done the whole nine to five thing. Guess what, I really did not enjoy waking up every morning at the same time and going to the same job where I worked with the same people every single day. Oh no, that was just not for me. Even though I had the kind of job many people would kill for: I designed clothes. (Okay, so they were western clothes, so what! They were clothes nonetheless, and I designed them.) Then I designed watches for a well known watch company. I probably designed a watch you even wore. (Thirteen years ago.) The jobs were great, but I had this strange feeling that something was missing in my life, and that something wasn't a new car or a new outfit or whatever the money I made could purchase. It was something more. What, I did not know. Not at the time. So I got up at eight in the morning each and every day, jumped into the Ford Probe, drove fifteen minutes to the building where I sat at the same cubicle and worked on, basically, the same thing, until I ate lunch at the same places with the same people, and so on, until it was time to go home. I did this until one fateful day, and that was the day I did not receive the raise I thought I deserved. Of course at the time it felt like the worst thing in the world. Little did I know that not getting that raise turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. What did I do? I quit. And then a few days later I answered an ad in the newspaper. A no frills airline was looking for flight attendants. Why not, I remember thinking.
"I'll do it for a few months, just for fun, until I find another job," I remember telling my friends .
At the time I was determined not to jump into just any job. I wanted to take my time and find a good job. One that paid well. And while I went on several interviews looking for that perfect job, I served blueberry muffins and chocolate chip cookies back and forth between Ft Lauderdale, Newark, Long Beach, and Dallas for just $99 a flight at night. Life was good.
Well one month turned into two, and two turned into three, and after I realized I wasn't going anywhere, that this was it, I applied to another airline, a major carrier, where before I knew it one year had somehow turned into thirteen. And I still love the job. Actually, what I love, is the lifestyle. The flexibility. The freedom. The excitement of not knowing what the day will bring. And leaving that day behind when I step off the airplane. I love knowing I can go anywhere anytime as long as there's an airport nearby. Believe it or not, I even like wearing the flammable polyester navy blue uniform. (Please don't tell anyone.) Oh sure, I wish things were different in the airline industry. Who doesn't? I mean who doesn't wish things were just better in the world in general? Hey, that's life. And my life, I have to say, is good, real good. Even if I am sandvich girl.
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Reader Comments (Page 2 of 2)
stonethrower Jun 6th 2008 12:27PM
wow Deborah you said a mouth full, I agree with you!
Ed Jun 6th 2008 2:49PM
Deborah lighten up, the first 100 years are the tuffest !
Heather Jun 6th 2008 3:56PM
TEMPERATURE BOY (aka Kent) - It's getting hot over here...could you turn down the heat?
NICK - Zsa Zsa - too funny!
DJ - Oh DJ, you're back again, what are we going to do with you?
BOB - Thanks for cracking me up! Make an album and send it to me.
SKYHAG - Glad I could make SOMEONE laugh. :)
MELISSA - So glad to hear you and Holland had a nice experience. And I love that name, Holland.
Cat Jun 7th 2008 12:45PM
I remember when a little boy of about 5 came onboard, looked at me with wide eyes and incredulously asked, "Are you the coffee girl?" =)
Scotty Jun 7th 2008 3:22PM
As a passenger who had tried at various times to discreetly tip the FA's (and I'm female) only to be told with a smile that it's against regs (this was when I had only begun to travel by air), I think you should have smiled brightly at the 'sandvich' woman idiot and told her there was a 20% gratuity attached to the cost of her 'sandvich'. :)
As far as the 'retirement' fun..I've also tried to have the FA's 'keep the change' when I've been on the flights which charge for food, but they've never once accepted.
It might be how I dress for travelling, perhaps thinking I'm with the Airline and checking on them?.. Going through security in NY last year one beautifully put together woman airline employee asked if I worked for the airline. I was taken aback, but felt very flattered given that I'm a bit past the age one would normally associate with an FA (although some people think I look younger). I explained I was merely a frequent flyer, very organized and liked to 'look' a certain way when I travel.
I'm one who still gives you 'guys' a lot of respect..had a close friend who was one of those having to notify the families of the crew on the "Lockerbie' flight (due to being multi-lingual), and know the training it took and level of studying and work he had to do to be accepted and then make a career as an FA/then Purser with the Airlines.
I so wish things could get back to the days when travel by Air was an enjoyable and exciting experience for both Crew and passengers alike.
Daniel Jun 11th 2008 9:00AM
Interesting idea - tips and gratuities for FA's. I'm a bit embarassed that I've never thought of this. But as Bob asked, Why not?
What do you think? Passengers? FA's? Heather?
Is this "rule" universally applied? Strictly? Is accepting a tip grounds for termination?
Scotty Jun 7th 2008 3:25PM
'retirement fund' ...oops :)
Lou Jun 8th 2008 7:12PM
Sandvich girl -- too funny! I'd guess most people don't realize flight attendants are aboard for the safety of passengers, because people don't usually see the emergency side of flight attendants. While hoping there won't be medical or other calls for service, flight attendants keep in the back of their minds that things could change in the blink of an eye. When I held this position in the 1970s and '80s, I know the passenger who endured an epileptic seizure was happy we were trained to help him, as was the passenger who suffered from hypoglycemia, and others. Too bad passengers like Deborah don't realize flight attendants do not set airline procedures or practices and view flight attendants as the professional emergency personnel they are.
Heather Lawrence Jun 8th 2008 8:24PM
Heather, That is funny! I'm sorry you had to go through so much training to be called "Sandvich Girl"!
All though people may be rude, annoying, condesending, ect. YOU will be the one to administer C.P.R., try to get others out of an emergency exit, or even aid in a terrorist take down. Yeah, F/A do more than pass out peanuts!
Lee Jun 8th 2008 8:32PM
My first flight anywhere was London to Amsterdam on KLM in 1953 and it was great. Marvelous meal and great service. Later I was ground crew with Pan Am in the 50's. Again I saw the great meals and great service. This past Friday my 11 year old granddaughter flew to Honkong on vacation with her mother. She arrived there this morning (Sunday). On the three flights I think I counted one "lunch" and one "snack".
On Friday Megan was saying "I'm so excited, I can't wait to get on the plane"! Her uncles, international engineers both, and I, laughed hysterically. We know that by Saturday, she was saying "I can't wait to get OFF this plane"! - Keep up the good work, I love reading this.
Scott Macbride Jun 10th 2008 8:11AM
Heather I cant believe I found you behind this! I'm smiling knowing you found your thing with this very good!!! I left that same airline and was with a small charter what a joke!! Still in LA I see.Still married to bills friend also. No kids yet? lol. Miss our snowboard trip just saw your pic the other day. Im in MYR but not diggin it too much... We have to catch up...Scott
DKD Jun 10th 2008 11:30AM
Lighten up you guys, this still is America and I still have a right to my opinion. My best friend was a flight attendant for 25 years, when the airlines gave back seniority to women who had been dumped for getting married she couldn't even hold seniority out of Los Angeles which had been her base for most of those 25 years, she had to commute to St. Louis. Her favorite stories were about whining co-workers who complained about being "glorified waitresses". She said she would tell them to shut-up and appreciate the 12 day work month, the pay and all the other perks. I am not slamming flight attendents in general, just people who complain about their jobs. If you are that unhappy about serving drinks then maybe it's time to move on to another job.
Heather Jun 13th 2008 5:26PM
SHERRY - tips you say? Hmmm...sounds nice, but I'm too embarrassed to take them. I'm one of the FA's who refuse.
BOB - The reason we don't get tips is because we don't get paid $2 something an hour.
CAT - Coffee girl ain't so bad. Better than Chicken lady, which is what I was called while working at a fried chicken joint.
LOU - I agree, like most flight attendants, and passengers (because I do think the flying majority really does get it) we're more than a waitress in a sky. I mean, I couldn't help but wonder how many people rethought their "waitress in the sky" with the crash that happend this week. We're there for safety people, and while we're there, we'll get you something to drink.
LEE - your story about Megan is funny, and I know exactly how she feels, each and every flight, because that last hour I, too, am thinking, GET ME OFF THIS FLIGHT!
SCOTT - So good to hear from you! I TOTALLY miss flying with you. You were one of my favorite flight attendants in the whole world, always a ton of fun to work with. MISS YOU!
Sandvich girl
AKA Heather
mdewitt Jun 16th 2008 1:09PM
Kent thanks for sharing Heather's blog with us. I find it very amusing, as I have been married to a former FA for the past 20 years.
Bil Jul 26th 2008 1:30AM
I was on a flight serving snacks when a 12 year old boy called me: "waiter". I said I am not a waiter. I am a highly trained professional. Now what would u like to drink?