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Eating with Strangers in New York City
One of the cool things I discovered on my first trip to Europe was that restaurants sat you at empty seats, not at empty tables.
In other words, if a table with four seats already has two people sitting there, the waiter will sit you and your buddy alongside of them--even if it is a couple enjoying a nice romantic evening that your presence will shortly ruin. The reality, however, is that the strangers you are placed next to usually prove to be wonderful company for the evening.
A slight twist on this idea--the communal dining table--is now becoming the hot new dining trend in New York, according to Time Magazine.
In restaurants like Buddakan, for example, a 30 foot table dominates the main dining room. On any given night, there is room here for 18 people. But, only a few actually know each other. The idea is that complete strangers come here to sit next to each other and enjoy a communal meal together.
I love this! What a great way to reintroduce civility and camaraderie back into the sometimes cold heart of New York City--unless, of course you get stuck next to a colossal bore. Then it kinda sucks.
(NY Times review of Buddakan here)
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
Adam Jul 11th 2007 7:41PM
This isnt that new. At "big wong" in new york's chinatown they have a couple 6-8 person circular tables that they seat like this. When i've been there though I've only been seated with chinese speakers or unfriendly types(or maybe i'm the unfriendly type).
It's more like being uncomfortably close to people on the subway and pretending the other people don't exist than a friendly dinner atmosphere.
Crabby McSlacker Jul 12th 2007 11:25AM
While I'm glad this is an option for extroverts, I'm way too neurotic and antisocial.
To me, "Dinner Out" is a special occasion and I just want to relax and enjoy it with my pre-selected dining companion, whom I know I will have a good time with. Not a bunch of scary strangers.
To each her own!
(Though Crabby won't share a dinner table with strangers she loves to invite them to her grouchy health blog, where they may sit anywhere they like! But warning, weirdness sometimes prevails at http://crankyfitness.blogspot.com/)