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Cop the Parisian Attitude
Parisians are well known for their rudeness to tourists and other foreigners.
This has always been very frustrating, however, to the Regional Tourism Committee of Paris whose job it is to attract foreign visitors to the French capital. They've discovered over the years, however, that many tourists simply don't want to go to Paris and be accosted by this legendary rudeness.
To combat this ugly PR nightmare, the Tourism Committee has launched an ad campaign in London to educate potential tourists about blending in with the locals and becoming rude themselves. The campaign, in conjunction with a rather funny website, teaches Francophobes a handful of common hand gestures and other non-verbal expressions that rude Parisians often employ on the streets. "You don't need to speak French to understand Parisians or to blend into the crowd," the website claims.
Although the website does not explain the psychology behind the campaign, I assume that the Tourism Committee hopes that enough vacationing Brits will now be able to fight fire with fire and flash back to the French the same rude gestures they've been tossing at us for years. With foreigners now in the know and parroting their tormentors, hopefully the French will ease up a bit out of embarrassment and modesty and we'll all breathe a little easier walking down the Champs-Elysées.
One such example is the Gallic Shrug. According to the website, the Gallic Shrug is used to "deny knowledge, agreement or responsibility."
To engage in such a reaction simply follow these steps.
1. Stick out your lower lip
2. Raise your eyebrows and shoulders simultaneously
Voilà! You're French!
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Reader Comments (Page 8 of 8)
Felipe M. Palacio Jan 11th 2007 12:21PM
It is natural for natives of big cities that are always rushing for work or running for business meetings or amorous encounters, to dismiss the frivolous problems of tourist that, God knows why they come to visit? A native never visits a landmark or a historic site.
Look at New Yorkers! Romans, and so on (Londoners are the exception; I'll accept that). They hardly give you the time of day. I don't blame them for ignoring tourists, but could try to improve, for their jobs, business meetings and "chance encounters" are most likely derivatives of tourists visiting their turf.
Teresa Amick Jan 11th 2007 12:15PM
#105 Oops, that's "appreciation" on line 9 of
r cohen Jan 11th 2007 12:33PM
I spent several years living in France when I was there with the military. Visited Paris hundreds of times. I came to this conclusion. The French Suck as a whole. There were some friendly people you ran into, only to disover that these folks wither traveled extensively or were not originially from France. Cant respect them for their history or current regime. As ere used to joke, they fight with feet and F--- with their face.
Felipe M. Palacio Jan 11th 2007 12:44PM
It is the case with every big city like New York, Rome, Berlin, Buenos Aires, and most specially, Paris.
The natives are always rushing to work or on errands, or going to meetings, whether business or amorous or chance encounters; they have no time
to waste answering frivolous questions from tourists or business visitors. Besides they truly don't know. Ask a Philadelphian if he ever been atop the William Penn statue, or visited the Independence Hall and the Bell, after their grammar school's field trip. For all this, try to be patient and tolerant; the next native coming your way may not be in a rush. Granted, that the natives must understand and realize that their jobs, their meetings and "encounters" might be thanks to all the tourists stirring things in their town.
Eva Jan 11th 2007 1:13PM
What?, you've go to be joking...Parisians can be rude but not all of them are, most of the ones I asked directions or questions to weren't rude. Everywhere you go, there are rude people no matter what country and the shrug thing or Americans that say "Stupid French" or that they hate the French people or the country itself, need to actually get out of the USA and travel to these countries they knock and they will find they actually will LOVE them.
sofia Jan 11th 2007 1:31PM
I think that the problem is that many Americans and Brits really believe that the world turns around them, therefore they are unable to understand and accept other cultures but their own...What could be more arrogant than that!!
I believe that this is where the tales of such French rudness come into being...is all based on the Anglo's inability to understand that unlike themselves, the French are straight foward people...meaning, people who are not fake and who don't like to kiss too much ass, which are both common practices of the of the Anglo culture!...Hence... Anglos call the more honest French attitude....rudness!! But I'm sure that in spite of such "rudness" the French do use their basic polite manners... such as bonjour, merci, svp, etc. which is actually all I need to feel comfortable, rather than a "oh...what a lovely weather" or worse..."have a lovely day" ...when no Anglos would actually give a damn about how you do!
Another reason for such "French rudness" is...(and that I've been told by french ppl)..that the French get rightfully annoyed at those who go to their country and don't even try to speak french, because most Anglo tourists expect and demand to be addressed in English everywhere by everyone...so once again I wonder...who is the arrogant here???....
And wheather they are rude to immigrants...well...I might agree with that one...that I'd encourage them to learn from...the Anglos but for the rest....
oh no French people don't get contagious with the Anglo fake smile diseases!!! Just keep being... French!!
Niedliches Etwas Jan 11th 2007 2:03PM
While I feel that everybody is entitled to share their experiences--good or bad, their thoughts and feelings, I must point something out that we seem to be forgetting, after having read the article:
The article states CLEARLY that the Tourism Committee of PARIS realizes the problem with the rudeness of Parisians. They ADMIT that there is a problem with the city-dwellers attitudes, so they've launched an ad campaign to try to lure Brits back to Paris, in hopes that when the Parisians get a taste of their own medicine, they will realize how much it stinks to be treated so rudely with no apparent justificiation. The article was clearly written tongue-in-cheek, and should be taken as such, but the point is made. Treat one as you wish to be treated. With respect and dignity.
While I have agreed that Americans can, indeed, act very UGLY (I've seen it myself more times than I care to remember) I do feel that there is room for improvement regarding the French. While nobody should act like an ignorant, self-absorbed fool full of 'entitlement' while traveling abroad, it still stands to reason that when you are humbly asking for help, be it a restroom, directions, or placing an order in a cafe, NOBODY has a right to act like they are superior simply because the asking party might not have a command of their language.
And sorry to say, Nicole, I think you might have some anger issues you need to work out. Your post was extremely well-spoken, made many good, valid points, but was very angry. Take a deep breath, enjoy the sunshine, and know that the whole world cannot be as perfect as you are. The bad must be taken with the good, and we all feel sorry for those who make matters worse for the rest of us who REALIZE what ignorance is...
Nicole Jan 11th 2007 4:21PM
>> And sorry to say, Nicole, I think you might have some anger issues you need to work out. Your post was extremely well-spoken, made many good, valid points, but was very angry. Take a deep breath, enjoy the sunshine, and know that the whole world cannot be as perfect as you are. The bad must be taken with the good, and we all feel sorry for those who make matters worse for the rest of us who REALIZE what ignorance is...
cindy gordon Jan 11th 2007 5:01PM
I have been to France many, many times, and to Paris at least 25 times. I don't think the French are rude at all. In fact, the opposite. As some other people have said, if you at least TRY to speak the language a little, it goes a long way. we are on THEIR turf. if someone came up to me here and started speaking Russian, i would not have a clue. i don't think it's fair to assume everyone in france speaks englisn!
Dick Doucet Jan 11th 2007 7:45PM
French rudeness is a myth. I've travelled as an American Tourist in France a number of times. My experience dealing with the average Frenchman on the street has been invariably pleasant and helpul. I don't speak much French. Almost all my encounters with French citizens involves my asking for their help. Once I smiled a little, gave a friendly bow, gave the right body lanquage, the French would fall over themselves trying to help me. I was never insulted on my poor French, I've carried on conversations using sign language, I've had a bunch of wives in a French supermarket poor out onto the street trying to help my wife and I find a restaurant, etc.
And let's not forget, if it wasn't for the French we would have never won our Revolutionary war in which case the United States wouldn't exist.
Melvin Oxenhorn Jan 12th 2007 10:46AM
i made a coment,it disaperd !!repeat--i did,nt study the language to go on a 2 week vacation.maby i am rude ,but the french waiter that turnd and walkd away when askd a question was also rude , my mom said 2 rudes don,t make one right!!he wasn,t the only one